It’s no secret communication helps achieve better sex. In this episode Anabel Reddaway chats with me about the research she conducted that confirms BDSM participants report higher sexual satisfaction than the general public. Annabel deep dives into the concept that women are actively consenting and seeking what they want in the BDSM world. It’s a space safe to talk. She also explains the 4Cs, RACK, and how participants report a sense of being free. We also look at how if you exercise your agency, female subs have the most control because they can tell the dom to stop at any stage with a safe word. Not all humans feels safe to say stop in the non BDSM world. Get some tips from the research Annabel found.